A ceremony that feels like the two of you
You do not need to arrive with a finished script or know exactly which package to choose. Tell us what you are planning, who will be there, and how you want the moment to feel. We will help you find the right officiant and shape a ceremony that feels personal, clear, and comfortable.
You do not have to know exactly what to book
Some couples want a warm, story-driven ceremony with family traditions woven in. Others want something short, sincere, and easy to follow. Some simply need an officiant to perform the required marriage intent and complete the license.
Our first job is to listen. Once we understand the setting, guest count, timing, and tone, we can explain which option makes sense and what it includes. No guessing, and no pressure to make the ceremony more elaborate than you want it to be.
Choose the level of ceremony that fits your plans
Not sure which one sounds right? Send us your date, location, and approximate guest count. We will point you in the right direction.
About 15 to 25 minutes
Full Venue Ceremony
For a traditional wedding day at a venue, house of worship, restaurant, private home, or outdoor setting. Your officiant works with you before the wedding to shape the ceremony and keep the moment moving naturally on the day.
- Planning conversation with your officiant
- Personalized ceremony script
- Traditional vows or space for your own
- Marriage license signing
- Readings, family participation, or ceremony traditions
About 10 to 15 minutes
Intimate Ceremony, Elopement, or Vow Renewal
A shorter ceremony for an elopement, micro wedding, intimate gathering, or vow renewal. It can still include personal vows, a reading, a meaningful tradition, and the warmth of a larger ceremony.
- Planning conversation with your officiant
- Prepared ceremony script
- Traditional or personal vows
- Marriage license signing when applicable
- Optional ceremony tradition
Usually under 5 minutes
Marriage License Signing
For couples who want a straightforward legal ceremony without formal vows or a ring exchange. Your officiant performs the required marriage intent, you both say “I do,” and the license is completed.
- Brief marriage intent ceremony
- Marriage license signing
- Clear instructions on what to bring
- At least one witness age 18 or older
- No formal vows or ring exchange
Personal without feeling overproduced
A personal ceremony does not have to be long or overly formal. It can be a few well-chosen details that make your guests recognize the two of you right away.
We can talk through personal vows, readings, family participation, cultural or faith traditions, and the balance of warmth, humor, and formality that feels right. If you want more of your story included, a personalized love story can be added to your ceremony.
Helpful additions, all in one place
When it makes planning easier, NY Officiants can also help with ceremony photography, videography, audio, and meaningful traditions. Choose only what serves the day you are actually planning.
Photography
Ceremony coverage with digital images, with formal portraits available when requested.
Videography
Ceremony coverage, edited video options, and short highlight reels for sharing.
Audio Support
A PA speaker can help guests hear clearly at outdoor ceremonies or larger gatherings.
Ceremony Traditions
Options can include a unity candle, breaking of the glass, sand, wine, or a unity wine box.
A clear process from first message to final signature
Tell us about the day
Share your date, ceremony location, approximate guest count, and the kind of ceremony you are considering.
Meet the right officiant
We help match you with an available officiant and explain the ceremony option that best fits your plans.
Shape the ceremony
You will discuss the structure, vows, traditions, and tone so everyone knows what to expect.
Be present for it
Your officiant leads the ceremony, completes the license, and helps the moment feel organized without feeling rehearsed.
Bring the license. We will guide the rest.
Couples obtain their own New York marriage license before the ceremony. Bring the original license and follow the issuing clerk’s instructions. Your officiant will complete the ceremony section with you and your witness or witnesses.
Rules and office procedures can change, so confirm the details with the clerk who issues your license.
Before you choose a service
If your plans fall somewhere between these options, that is completely normal. Contact us and we will help you sort it out.
Which ceremony option should we choose?
Can we write our own vows?
Can we include faith or cultural traditions?
Do you serve LGBTQ+ couples?
Do you provide photography or video?
Tell us what you are planning
Send your date, location, and the kind of ceremony you have in mind. If you are not sure which service fits, we will help you choose.